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Are You Making These Sex Mistakes?

Dave — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 16:01:12 +0000

Making sex a race. When it comes to sex don’t rush. Take time and explore each others erogenous zones. Sex should be about closeness and discovery. It shouldn’t be rushed or goal orientated because that’s not sexy.

Same time and place. Change it up a bit. Take her back to a place where you two had sex whether it be the back seat of the car or in the garage.

Predictable Foreplay. If you want to change things up consider working out together. Working out will help alleviate stress and increase dopamine levels. Not to mention your sweat has a derivative that when smelt will cause her to become aroused.

Predicable first moves. Try something different tie up her hands and have her figure out how to take off your shirt or have her tie up your hands and try to take off her underwear. Not only will you share some laughs it will up the foreplay and change your predictability

Watching TV, then sex. Instead of TV, try reading a book together it erotica or not. Or try taking a bath or walk.

Holding hands. There’s nothing wrong with holding hands but after awhile it can become just a habit try changing up your moves. Hold the small of her back or giving her a kiss a little PDA will show her you’re proud to show her off and deepen your connection.

Revamped Ideas To Up Her Sex Drive

Dave — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 15:00:27 +0000

Lit Candles

The Old Notion: Light lots of candles because candles set the mood and are romantic.
The New Theory: By lighting scented candles you may be able to soothe some of her anxiety and make her more receptive to love making. A doctor from Chicago says Green Apple is one of the top scents. However you should avoid Cherry because it tends to inhibit sexual arousal.

Buy Her a Lobster Supper

The Old Notion: Buying lobster showed your exquisite taste and picking up the cheque leaves her very impressed.
The New Notion: Lobsters contain high amounts of phosphorus which is an important mineral in keeping vaginal tissues moist which helps with her comfort and may heighten her desires. Another way to increase desire is to serve up a side of carrots which are high in Beta Carotene which raises levels of progesterone and increases desire.

Slip Her A Sex Pill

The Old Notion: One minute she is downing Spanish-Fly the next she’s in between the sheets.
The New Notion: There is a supplement known as ArginMax which is known to double the increase in sexual drive for many women who are taking it. Tell her about the pill and she may make the decision herself to try it.

Re-create A Sexy Date

The Old Notion: Which makes you look sweet and sensitive.
The New Notion: Take one of your dates and recreate the sights and smells. If there was a particular smell that had her aroused reintroducing it may recreate that arousal.

Basic Things To Remember About Sex

Dave — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 17:01:21 +0000

Avoid eating heavy meals before intercourse. Eating greasy or heavy meals can lead to gas or indigestion during lovemaking.

Watch what you drink. Drinking may increase the desire in men but it can also limit their ability this is the same with women. 2 or 3 drinks may leave women loving but can’t limit what they can do physically.

Penile discharge or sores equals no sex. Many STDs don’t have obvious symptoms. For example Chlamydia in males may be almost symptom free yet can cause you major grief the next day.

Before any date whether you have sex or not bathe. No one wants to smelly sweaty armpits or a smelly butt.

Your teeth are important. Make sure that you brush your teeth twice a day and floss. You don’t want to have garlic on your breath or chunks of your salad from lunch in your teeth. This is especially important for those of you who are smokers. No one wants to kiss a dirty ashtray.

Always use condoms when you are having sex with a new partner. No matter how innocent that person may seem you need to be cautious and even regular partners should be regularly tested for STDs.

Don’t worry about penis size. One thing to remember is the penis looks smaller to the owner than the person who is looking at it. Even if your member is on the smaller side a woman will appreciate it if you are attentive.

Don’t rush into intercourse and focus only on the genitalia. Many women and men need to have foreplay. Take the time to massage and explore each others bodies. Find out each others likes and dislikes.

Make sure your girl knows that you think she is sexy. Some woman are very insecure about themselves but hearing how great you think she looks and how much she turns you on will definitely help put her mind at ease.

Everybody will have off days. Don’t get upset at your girl if she is finding it hard to reach orgasm or mad at your boyfriend if he prematurely ejaculates. There may be outside factors like tiredness, stress, inexperience or anxiety.

Sometimes more is less. Don’t stress if you can’t do those tantric positions find positions that are comfortable that provide you with enjoyment.

There are lots of lubricants and toys out there but they shouldn’t be used as a shortcut.

Women are slower. Women take longer to be aroused and take longer to reach orgasm. The key is that the longer sex takes the better it will feel for her. Take the time to kiss, cuddle, caress everywhere not just the genitals.

Though most women can reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation that doesn’t mean they don’t want to have a penetrative orgasm.

Having sex for hours doesn’t make you a hot stud. Instead it makes the vagina numb and sore.

Have manners. Don’t just pull your girls hair and force her head down to your member. Also avoid ramming your penis down her throat. If you think you are going to cum be courteous and warn her that way she has the option of what she wants to do.

Top Female Erogenous Zones

Dave — Fri, 13 Feb 2009 17:01:55 +0000

For a man many of the zones are obvious, penis, testicles and anus. Many men of course want to know where they can touch a woman to drive her crazy. Keep in mind that every woman is different what some like others may dislike. Women unlike men have many different erogenous zones. So just where can you touch her?

The feet. Many women enjoy having their feet massaged and their toes sucked or licked that is assuming that they are cleaned properly. The feet are a very sensitive spot for some women and the tickling sensation can be very pleasant.

The Ears. Licking, sucking and kissing a woman’s ears can be arousing for her. You can blow in her ear but we don’t need wind speeds of a tornado. Whisper erotic things to her in her ear and the breeze from your breath will be enough to make her tingle.

Wrists. The wrists may seem like an odd place for an erogenous zone but women like to have their wrists nibbled and nuzzled. Next time you and your woman are engaging in foreplay start by caressing her wrists and watch how turned on she gets.

Nape of the neck. Breathing on her neck will give her goose bumps imagine what would happen if you nibbled gently or sucked on her neck. Guaranteed your woman will really like it if you lift her hair and gently tilt her head softly kissing and nibbling her neck.

Nipples. This probably isn’t a surprise to anyone that the breasts are erogenous zones. Gently fondling sucking or nibble will surely get her hot.

The buttocks. A lot of women actually enjoy if you gently spank or squeeze their buttocks but there are the odd few that actually enjoy having their butts licked and penetrated with a finger or your penis.

Vagina/Clitoris. Another no brainer. You can stimulate the clitoris by rubbing and sucking. Most times you can tell when she’s enjoying it because she will moan or even squirm.

The vagina has the G-spot which can be difficult to find but many women are grateful when you do. When this area is stimulated it produces an intense pleasure and an usual sensation.

The backs of the knees. There are many nerve endings in the backs of the knees so a woman can find it extremely pleasurable when you nibble or lick the backs of the knees. However be careful, the backs of the knees can get irritated if you are being to rough.

The Lips. If you know how to kiss, lick, suck and bite then you will fill her with passion and there’s a good chance you will end up doing more then just kissing.

The inner thighs. The inner thighs are very sensitive to touching, stroking, and licking so when you fondle them you will make her wild.

Top 10 Female Sex Fantasies

Dave — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 17:01:16 +0000

You may think women don’t fantasize or that they only fantasize about gentle love making by a fire with rose petals scattered all around. However you may be pleasantly surprised at what is really going on in their head. Keep in mind that every woman is different so while this may be the fantasy of one it may not be suitable when it comes to your significant other. One of the best things you can do is have an open conversation to talk about her feelings and gauge her reactions.

Number 10: Dominating you.

Women love big, strong men but sometimes they want to control that big strong man to the point where he is begging her for that sexual release. One scenario would be to tie you to a bed while she pleasures you with her mouth. This way she is in control and has your attention focused on what shes doing and her sexy body.

Number 9: You dominating her.

This fantasy takes on the realm of the modern day woman who is independent and wants a man who knows what he wants. Women in this case fantasy about you grabbing her and pushing her against the wall or pinning her down on the bed as you penetrate her deeply.

Number 8: Student with a teacher.

Not only do you want to see her in the short school girl skirt and pig tails she also wants to dress up in front of you. She’ll act playful and sexy trying to get you to break your boundaries as a “teacher”.

Number 7: Having sex with a stranger.

Most normal women wouldn’t dare just sleep with a stranger but don’t think they have fantasized about it. Lots of women enjoy the idea of being able to meet a stranger and have hot sex without any strings attached.

Number 6: Threesome with another woman.

Though this isn’t an unrealistic fantasy most women have thought about being with another woman however in most cases you’ll only get to watch and won’t get any playtime. That’s because most women don’t want to see their boyfriend touch a hot woman. By having you watch she not only gets to explore her curious side she doesn’t have to worry about sharing or jealousy.

Number 5: A threesome with two men.

Number 4: Voyeurism.
She enjoys the thought of watching people get it on for the same reasons you do. Maybe she fantasizes about spying on the horny neighbours or even watching a full blown orgy.

Number 3: Rape.

This is a questionable one, but many women like the idea of being able to fantasize about rape mainly because they are safe and don’t have to suffer the trauma or guilt that would normally occur. Her fantasy could be a simple as a man carrying her to his bedroom she protest as he rips her clothes off and massages and caresses her in arousing ways then when he penetrates her she has an explosive orgasm. This doesn’t mean that no means yes! If you were to act out this scenario be sure you talk about it first. Make sure you know the rules and that your girlfriend is comfortable with it. If she isn’t comfortable then DON’T do it.

Number 2: Exhibitionism.

The though of making porn flicks may make her cringe, but that does not mean she has not fantasized about just that at one time in her life. However most women are far to body conscious to be comfortable experimenting.

Number 1: Private Dancer.

Most woman aren’t courageous enough to dance around naked. That doesn’t mean the idea of dancing around naked for you doesn’t arouse her. By seeing your enjoyment it lets her know that you find her attractive and seeing your erection will let her know that not only are you turned on but she has control over you.

Some of these fantasies can turn into reality but remember to have an open discussion and not to push anything. If she wants act out one of these fantasies then great but if she doesn’t then tough luck.

How to Keep the Spice In Your Love Life

Dave — Fri, 30 Jan 2009 17:01:19 +0000

You can spend the rest of your life with one person and make love to them in hundreds of different ways. There are many ways to be creative so you’ll never have to be bored.

Be erotic and romantic. It brings a smile to your face when he sends chocolate or flowers so why not send him something in return. Send him a nice bottle of wine or champagne and include a note about why he deserves such gifts.

Do your homework. Go to any good bookstore and invest in some good quality sex books. You don’t have to read through the entire book but you can pull one out when you are feeling adventurous or want to change things up. Pick a new position or a type of fantasy and do it. You can even buy some steamy novels and read excerpts to each other.

Have a picnic in bed. Light up the bedroom with some candles and lie in your bathrobes and slippers. Serve some chilled wine and cut up pieces of fruit and other finger foods and hand feed each other. You can even give each other a massage well an erotic video plays in the background.

Have sex throughout the day. Some women can achieve multiple orgasms but that doesn’t mean a man would not want to experience the same thing. Make love in the morning then an hour or two later pull him back into bed for a second round.

Be a sex slave for him/her. Their birthday or another special event is looming and you’re strapped for cash. Instead of buying a gift offer to spend the entire day pleasuring him/her.

Flirt. Even if you have been together for years it doesn’t mean you can’t flirt. When we flirt our bodies receive natural stimulants sending us through an emotional high. Pretend like you have just met and act sexy.

Write sexy notes. Write about what you want to do to her or why you love her so much and sneak the notes in her purse or makeup bag. Anywhere she would see it.

Be his mistress. If he’s going to have an affair you better make sure it’s with you. Set up a date and meet for lunch at a hotel bar. Then go to your hotel room and have wild and hot sex.

Kiss. Sometimes when people get into relationships they stop kissing or don’t kiss as they used to when they first met. Gently caress each other and kiss passionately. It doesn’t have to be on just the lips each. You can kiss her on the neck, down the small of her back or on the stomach. Be creative.

Keep the clothes. When you are wearing your clothes press your bodies together and grind. Let her rub against your leg.

Push. For many women it is possible to achieve orgasm by pushing down on the penis with her vaginal muscles.

Keep your eyes open and the lights on. Watch what is happening when you are having sex. Watch your penis moving in and out of her. Look at the pleasure in her facial expressions.

Be Unpredictable. You have sex every Saturday night you climb into bed. Why not surprise him/her by cuddling them from behind when they are reading or washing up.

Late night calls. Away on business? Next time you call her up late at night skip the normal stuff and instead talk about all the things you want to do to her and the things you are going to do to her the next time you are together.

Try new things. Have a bubble bath or shower together, Give a foot or back rub, or even take each others clothes off without using your hands.

Show your excitement. If you are excited show him or even tell him how excited he’s making you feel.

Women You Should Not Date

Dave — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 17:01:16 +0000

Gold Diggers:

There is nothing wrong with paying for dates or buying gifts especially if you really like doing it. The problem is when the girl starts to expect it from you all the time and when she wants only expensive things. In today’s day and age it doesn’t hurt for the woman to pick up the bill every now and then. They want to be treated like equals then they should act like equals too.

Chronic Cheaters:

You find out that the girl you have been with has cheated on you . You go through the fighting and talking and work things out. Next thing you know your friends and family are telling you they see her hanging off random guys. If she cheats on you once it’s up to you if you want to forgive her. If she cheats on you again then you don’t need to make the mistake of forgiving her again.

Girls with Baggage:

These girls are worse then gold diggers. Gold diggers take your money but you can get that back with hard work and time. Baggage girls are so depressed that they will pull you down with them until you feel as miserable as them if not worse. These girls have too many issues and until they sort them out they should not even attempt to be in a relationship with anyone.

Self-proclaimed Princesses:

These girls won’t even break a sweat. They go to the nail and hair salon every other week. They don’t do any cleaning. They expect you to carry them over puddles or make it stop raining. All that these girls want is to sit around and be pampered. Not to mention they think they are better then everyone and totally self absorbed. If she is willing to try and fit into your world and comprise then by all means date her but if she’s not going to sacrifice some things then kick her to the curb.

Chronic Bitch:

She finds reasons to pick fights and she enjoys fighting with you. Her total goal in life is to make you miserable and show you that shes right and you’re wrong. Guilt is her weapon of choice. One thing to look out for is negativity. On your first date if anything negative comes out of her mouth about you then get out while you can.

How to Get Your Woman to Give You Oral Sex

Dave — Fri, 26 Dec 2008 17:00:20 +0000

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Every woman will have different feelings when it comes to oral sex. Some women may have had bad experiences with previous partners. Others may find it Taboo thinking the act is dirty or impure, and for others there is a fear of not adequately pleasing a man. It may be possible to get women to change their minds when it comes to oral sex.

You can’t force a woman to give oral sex just like you can’t expect every woman to like oral sex. First make sure you know how your woman feels. Sit down and openly communicate with her. Discuss her feelings on giving and receiving oral sex.

During Foreplay softly whisper the things you want to do to her and the things you want her to do to you. Pay attention to her reaction, keeping note of the things that seem to arouse her and things that don’t appear to interest her.

Don’t just give her oral sex because you think it will better your chances of receiving it. Show your woman that you truly enjoying going down on her licking her, teasing her, and tasting her. When she sees how much you enjoy pleasuring her there is a good chance she will reciprocate.
Keep up with your hygiene. Make sure you shower and bathe regularly. Don’t try to mask odors with cologne or spray. Wash your genitals with soap and body wash thoroughly. Also trim your pubic hair. No woman wants to go down on a man who hasn’t bathed in days.

If all else fails try halls extra strong cough drop candy. Each of you can put one in your mouth and slowly let them dissolve. It disguises any bad tastes that may be lingering and it also heightens nerves on the genitals heightens orgasmic sensations.

Once your woman realizes how great oral sex can be guaranteed she will want to reciprocate it.

Christmas Season Spikes Sexual Activity

Dave — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 17:00:44 +0000

The research of timing conceptions to holidays is relatively new in the united states. Since the 1930’s conceptions fluctuated seasonally greatly due to humidity, amounts of sunlight etc this still rings true for less developed countries. In developed countries many people are shielded from sunlight, heat, and humidity by working indoors, air condition and heating systems.

However according to biorhythm researchers and creators of sex products between Christmas and New Years there is an increase in sexual activity. This could be due to news year resolutions of starting a family or the extra consumption of alcohol and partying. Having Christmas sex isn’t just an American rite, having heavy Christmas and New Years sex has always been a characteristic of Christian cultures in which it has been studied says Gabriele Doblhammer.

British Researchers have gone as far as to say the Christmas and New Years period can be linked to Festivals of Fertility. Such Festivities are associated with more opportunities to socialize and
an hedonistic approach to life.

Trojan condom project manager David Johnson says there is a large peak in sales of their condoms during the Christmas season. Ironically the increase in sexual intercourse also shows itself in the U.S as a large number of births in September.

Porn Moves that you shouldn’t Do At Home

Dave — Wed, 17 Dec 2008 05:06:20 +0000

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Deep Throat – Don’t even attempt to shove your member down your girls thought without consulting her. If she is a normal woman she may have a strong gag reflex which may result in a large mess to clean up. In most cases a woman isn’t going to love the idea of having a penis lodged down her throat. So if you are looking for a deep throated blow job talk to her first.

Not preparing for anal - Porn stars are likely lubed during breaks and have disturbingly stretched sphincters. However if you are like most people you need proper lubrication and need to go in slow.

Ass to Mouth -You have seen it a porn star moves straight from anal sex to getting a blow job. Most people don’t want to have stuff from the back door in their mouth. Also the anus can contain lots of bacteria so it’s not the healthiest. If however you decide to do this you should make sure both partners are fresh and showered.

The facial – Be considerate if you want to cum on her face, butt, or breasts ask her first. You don’t want her to have a hassle cleaning it out of her hair and it can be extremely painful to get in your eyes.

Dick Slap – Porn stars normally slap their dick on various things. A possible explanation is they are slapping it to keep it stiff. If you have trouble staying hard give yourself a couple strokes or ask your partner to help you with her mouth. Never dick slap her without due warning.

The Pile Driver – Named after a wrestling move you should get the idea that this should probably left to the porn stars. Overall this position is just going to be uncomfortable for both of you.

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