Use of Sex Toys for Women

Sex toys please women. One cannot expect all women to have the same libido. Some have frozen sexuality while others are too demanding. Sex toys are designed for both types. The most common forms of toys are lingeries, vibrators, dildos and bondage equipments etc.

Both men and women are too busy these days that they don’t get enough time for lovemaking. If indeed they could find some time, they couldn’t enjoy it to the fullest. Surveys have fetched that in nine out of ten times, the problem has to do with Mr. Alpha. Even a frigid woman can be aroused if her partner initiates with tender foreplay and then begins gentle strokes on her erogenous zones. But alas! Most men couldn’t infuse their women in this way. On the other side of the coin, some women expect their partners taking them to the apex of pleasure. But in reality, the men can’t help themselves but ejaculating after 2 minutes of being inside. Next, those women end up with a disturbing sexual life and that not only hampers their professional and family relationships but also disrupts their metabolism.

Sex toys are a solution to put and end to problems like this. Although society treats use of those toys as fetish, expert sexologists often recommend their patients to try those toys. That’s because those toys can guarantee satisfaction!

But choosing a sex toy is very important. Thanks to the digital age, users now have access to internet and they can purchase sex toys from online stores after spending a considerable amount of time browsing through the products available from the e-store. For example, to decide what type of dildo to use, women should consider its size and whether it will be fit with their private areas. Available dildos are made in plastic and other materials and they come with different curves and angular sizes. Those dildos can reach to inner areas and are really effective in appeasing women.

There are various types of vibrators and bondages as well. Before using a vibrator, a woman needs to be sure whether she wants stimulation of clitoris or g-spot. If it’s the clitoral area, then small bullet type vibrators should be selected. But if she wants to stimulate her g-spot, then rabbit vibrators can be used. The rabbit vibrator can be used to induce women into double stimulation.

Bondage gears also sell pretty solid among those, who opt for using sex toys. The underlying thought behind using bondage equipment is for enjoying role-play. In this type of role-play, the man dominates woman and ties her up with use of bondage gears. Some women enjoy this kind of sex and bondage equipments as sex toy are very helpful in achieving that. A difference between bondage equipments and dildos or vibrators is that the former requires involvement of two people. Now, the man can have experience in using those equipments or he could be an amateur. The woman should know beforehand his exposure with these toys and then select one.

Overall, sex toys aid one’s sexual life and that’s why many women have started using those toys.

Harry Wilson has a wide ranging experience in writing on dating tips and lessons, conjugal life, morning after pills and sex toys. His article delves deep into these areas to bring out a holistic picture to the readers.

How to Get Rid of a Urinary Tract Infection.

The discomfort and inconvenience of a urinary tract infection have been experienced by most persons during their lifetime.
Men and women show and experience different signs and symptoms.
Age also plays a role in the identification of this infection.
The person may have burning while urinating, an urge to pass urine often or might have to make a dash for the toilet to prevent wetting self.
In females the infection may be accompanied by itching due to a concurrent vaginal Infection. The urine will be cloudy.
Pregnant females are prone to UTIs because of the weight of the womb pressing against the bladder causing a shortening of the urethra. In addition the anus where the offending germ lives is in close proximity.
Men may have this problem because of an enlarged prostate or a sexually transmitted infection.
In young children a UTI may present as loss of appetite, diarrhea, fever and crying. In the newborn this will be identified by a low body temperature and jaundice.
Older folks will experience lethargy, senility and confusion, fever and incontinence.


  • This is a serious medical problem and should be assessed by a medical practitioner.
  • At least 10 to 15 glasses of water taken daily will help to dilute the germs.
  • Drink at least 2 glasses Cranberry, Sorrel or Coconut water daily
  • Menopausal women should use Estrogen cream vaginally
  • Infants should be breast-fed as the breast milk contains antioxidant properties.
  • If the doctor prescribes Antibiotics, it is imperative that fluid intake be increased since the majority of these drugs that treat UTIs are sulphur-based. They need to be flushed from the system to prevent crystallization in the kidneys.
  • Avoid tight underwear and pants, wear panties with cotton crotch
  • Wash and dry underwear with heat for example the sun, a hot iron or dryer.
  • Avoid using perfumes on vagina.
  • Wipe from front to back after defecating to prevent wiping the germs into the urinary passage or vagina.
  • Ascertain allergy to latex rubber or spermicides.
  • Practice good personal hygiene by having a daily shower, changing underwear daily and washing the private parts after sex.
  • Have 1 faithful sex partner.
  • Sex partner should be treated to prevent getting back the infection.
  • Avoid anal sex.
  • Avoid douching except recommended by a doctor.
  • Have a balanced diet daily with an adequate helping of fruit and vegetables at each meal.
  • Adequate sleep and rest.
  • Potassium Citrate mixture can be purchased at the drug store. Take 30 mls in a glass of water daily.
  • Females on hormonal contraceptives experience a loss of Zinc and should replace this important antioxidant to prevent them becoming prone to infections.
  • For long-term health benefits take a multivitamin/multimineral daily and additional antioxidants such as Vitamins ACE and Selenium.
  • Encourage older folks to drink fluids often throughout the day.

Lilly is free lancer content builder she writes an articles for health related sites and magazines. She writes on women issues, gynecomastia, Mens health issues etc.

That’s Never Happened to Me Before, I Swear!

Young Guys Get ED Too.
Because most men learn about genital function and male sexuality by trial and error, they generally don’t get the memo that explains, “Your penis is a reliable barometer of your physical and psychological health.”

Unruly as it seems, a penis is a delicate instrument. You know how quickly and accurately your penis measures heat and cold—both literally and metaphorically, and you surely know how well-calibrated “Mr. Happy” is to visual stimuli. The joy stick also responds to images from memory and other fantastic stimuli. In fact, most men learn they can depend on their penises for instant and durable response to almost all stimuli and encouragement.

In your 20s and 30s, you may tune-out the most revealing message in commercials for ED medications. The man with the big voice says a lot when he counsels, “Make sure you are healthy enough for sexual activity.” In fact, if your body and mind are not equal to the task, your penis definitely will deliver the message. Yet many men seem surprised when the equipment malfunctions. It’s almost Shakespearean. Millions of men have listened in shock and disbelief as they have heard the tragic refrain issue from their lips: “That’s never happened to me before!” they moan. “I swear! That has never happened!”

If you eat lots of fatty and fried foods, work at a desk, and would rather catch on fire than exercise, expect Mr. Happy’s imminent failure. The higher your cholesterol soars, the less your penis will. If you’re fat and out of shape, it’s only a matter of time before you go flaccid at the magic moment. The system does, after all, depend on veins and arteries for its thermonuclear power.

What the doctors say and what they mean.
Working in the nastiest of medical specialties, urologists gather tons of data about penile function and malfunction. They list five common causes of erectile disappointment and despair:

The doctors discuss, “performance anxiety.” They mean you choked, froze or panicked. Remember that premature ejaculation counts as erectile dysfunction, too; it suggests you have unreconciled emotional or psychological issues with sex. Sexual arousal activates most of your fight-or-flight mechanisms, and adrenalin powers your excitement. You can, however, over-amp and go into “flight” mode. Sometimes, the more eager and excited you become, the more you overload the system, compromising your ability to control your ejaculation or sustain your erection. Not surprisingly, young men complain most often about hyper-sensitivity and premature ejaculation, because they lack experience to control the anxiety that often accompanies sexual activity. Sexual proficiency develops in direct proportion to your ability, literally, to go with the flow. Some professional help would not hurt.

The doctors cite excessive alcohol or drug use as a cause of ED. They mean you drank or smoked or snorted yourself right out of the game. Many younger guys forget their favorite alcoholic and herbal refreshments not only diminish their inhibitions but also work as powerful anesthetics. Although your penis has more sensitive nerve-endings than any other part of your body, alcohol and drugs disconnect them from the system. Some experts strongly suggest, if you cannot feel the tip of your nose, you probably cannot feel Mr. Happy’s tip either. Then, they recommend you postpone sex until normal sensation returns.

The doctors caution about taking prescription medications. They mean that your feel-good mood controllers may chill you out so completely you cannot get excited enough to sustain your erection or achieve orgasm. The most common anti-depressants, those technically identified as “supplemental serotonin reuptake inhibitors,” warn vaguely of “sexual side-effects.” Because SSRIs work on your central nervous system much like a governor works on your car engine, they prevent your system from revving past the yellow line. Good for your psychological condition; bad for sex. If you cannot rev to the redline, you cannot orgasm. Many blood pressure and diabetes medications have similar effects. Remember the big voice warned you, “Make sure you are healthy enough…”

“Heart disease and cardio-pulmonary problems,” doctors list among ED’s causes. Not a great medical mystery: If your heart and lungs cannot pump and oxygenate as they should, your penis just does not work. The mighty magic requires a little jump-start from your central nervous system, but it runs on steady circulation. In fact, your doctor will agree with your penis: If you experience ED, you should have your heart, blood pressure, respiration and cholesterol tested, because you may be a candidate for conditions far worse than flaccid.

What’s a poor guy to do?
Approach sex as your favorite athletic event, training and conditioning for it like Rocky shaped-up for his epic fisticuffs. Half an hour of sexual activity requires the same stamina and endurance as half an hour of steady walking at nearly 4 mph. Face the cold, sadly soft facts: If you cannot do the walk, you probably cannot do the sex. If you plan to be good in the bedroom, you first should get good in the gym.

Cindy Swensen is a guest blogger for Apexrx where you can find tips on staying healthy and saving money.

Biggest Turnoffs For Women

I usually write a lot about how to meet women, how to go on dates and how to get those dates to end in bed. Sure, for some men that’s enough, but what happens to the ones that want more? Do relationships just happen?

Last week I was having a conversation with a good friend of mine. He explained that even though he was “scoring” fairly regularly, he never managed to keep dating the same person longer than 2-3 months.  He was very puzzled as to why the women in his life lost interest after a period of time. To me, it was quite obvious – he was driving them away.

A few months gives a women plenty of time to “really know you”, it’s here when she decides if you are a worthy investment.

Although you believe you’re doing everything right, the women that you’re dating seem to differ. This article discusses the most common reasons men drive women away. I’ve split them up into 2 categories, physical turnoffs and behavioral turnoffs and will be detailing both types in this article. You might think some of them are obvious but pay close attention to the ones you didn’t know about as they might just be the reason you are losing out.

Physical Turnoffs

Before we get into this subject, I want to make it clear that by physical turnoffs I’m not talking about your belly, weak arms, inability of benching 180kg etc. More often than not women are not looking for the strongest/most beautiful guy in the room; they just want a man with class, confidence and proper etiquette.  Do you think she would go out with you for a month if she cared about your invisible six-pack?

Here are some of the things you need to avoid if you want your “relationships” to be longer.

Bad bodily habits

Yawning without covering your mouth – Do you think she wants to look at your tonsils every time you’re tired? No and this also shows her that you lack proper etiquette.

Burping Loudly – Unless you’re Chinese (many other Asian cultures) and you’re complimenting the restaurant chef or her cooking, constrain yourself from doing such “activities” as in most western cultures that’s just disgusting.

Spitting – Regardless of how bad you think you need to do it, try NOT doing it when she’s around.

Clearing your phlegm throat loudly and incessantly – Avoid this by drinking some water or not talking, if you really have to do it, just excuse yourself for a moment and sort it out at the toilet.

Picking in/around your nose – This is a common thing that your kindergarten teacher was telling you not to do however, when you start to feel comfortable around a person (after 1-2 months or so) you begin to forget about controlling yourself and you start doing things without even realizing.

Displaying nervous ticks – Nervous ticks can be anything from biting nails to blinking profusely. Such bodily habits are not easy to control and if you can’t avoid them, best is to pray she’s not bothered by them.

Eating with no etiquette – It’s considered common sense to eat with your mouth close, to hold the fork and knife properly and not to talk with your mouth full. No girl wants you’re chewed puree in her hair.

Blowing your nose – Some people consider this as being normal and are ok with doing it in public however, most people consider it disgusting. If you have to do it, do it in private. If you must do it in front of her, make sure you excuse yourself.

Scratching inappropriate areas of your body – Do you think a woman would feel attracted to a man that scratches his testicles or butt in public? I didn’t think so either.

During the first few dates, you might keep a lid on these things but slowly you forget and that’s what drives them away. Always, when you’re with a woman and you feel the need to fulfill any of these bodily urges, simply excuse yourself and do your business in private. Think about it, would you still feel attracted to her if she did anything on the list? Exactly and that’s why you shouldn’t be doing them either.

Bad Appearances

Eye crust – You can easily avoid this by simply washing your face in the morning.

Bad breath –At least at some point in their life, over 85% of people suffer from halitosis (bad breath). Try to take every precaution – floss, brush your tongue and use mouthwash.

Sweaty Pits – These are very disgusting and some guys just can’t avoid them. If you sweat profusely even though you use a lot of deodorant, try wearing light color clothes (or plain black) as sweat stains are less visible on them.

Clothes issues – These can be anything from stains and or wrinkles on clothing, holes in underwear, undershirt and/or socks. Avoid them at all costs as they can only make you look bad.

Dirty, long fingernails – Women look at hands all the time and no woman wants to see a guy whose hands look like he’s been gardening all day. When it comes to long fingernails, unless you rock that classic guitar, you have no excuse.

You should focus on these issues all the time, not just when you’re on a date. In the future, make sure you take those extra 15 minutes in the morning or before you go out in public; the result will be well worth it.

Behavioral Turnoffs

Constantly talking about yourself – It’s true, she does want to know you but, she wants you to know her too. Try asking her questions about your life and be genuinely interested in her existence.

Not listening to her – During these first months do your best to listen, it may seem hard but it has to be done. Women love a guy that listens to them.

Being very vague – Constantly talking about yourself is no good but remember, she does want to know you too. Let her in on the interesting stuff but not your entire life story.

Checking out other girls and making remarks – You’re out with her because you’re interested in her. If you keep looking at other women she’ll just think that you find her unattractive. Why should she be with a man that doesn’t find her attractive?

Complaining about every aspect of your life – Think about it, if you hate your life, why would she want to be part of it?

Not introducing her to people you know – She wants to be part of “your world” that’s what makes her fall in love with you. With you she can meet people and do stuff she wouldn’t have done with anyone else. Don’t keep that away from her.

Laughing like a hyena – She might have great sense of humor but laughing so hard that everyone in the restaurant looks at you, will only embarrass you both.

Insulting women and exes – This only shows how you will talk about her when she’s not there. Also, never talk about your ex, regardless of the pain and suffering she put you trough, those stories are for your friends. Talking about your ex only tells your new girlfriend that you’re still in love with her.

Having a one-track mind – A man should always stand by his beliefs but he must also be opened to new possibilities, you don’t have to agree with her, but at least acknowledge her valid point of view.

As exhaustive as this list may seem, you’ve surely heard your female friends complain about some of the items on it. This list helps women decide whether a guy is boyfriend material or a one-time date.

You can also use this list for yourself, you might like her a lot but if she’s doing some of the things here its best you stay away.

What now?

Always remember, it’s not just the first few dates that require your constant attention, it’s the first few months. Eventually things dwell down and you can be yourself.  Hey, if she had the chance to know you and like you for who you really are, she might even tolerate some of your bad “qualities” but before that happens, do your best not to drive her away.

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Herbal V User Facts and Information

With all of the women’s health products that have flooded the market over time, men’s health is often overlooked in stores and by professionals. But, even the most healthy and active of men experience health problems in certain areas. With that in mind, it needs to be said that there are many men out there who may feel and look healthy as a horse, but every stallion needs their check-up as well.

So again, with all the women’s products out there to keep them healthy, active and on the go, what are the men left with? Herbal v is one of many products out there to keep you healthy and active. Particularly in one area over others.

One area that can be particularly concerning to men is in the area of sexual health. While this kind of topic might produce giggles from some, it is a health concern that should be addressed that second that it produces any questions or problems.

Herbal V is one such product that sets about directly addressing this issue. You can find yourself more sexually healthy than ever with Herbal V, and this pharmaceutical grade supplement is both safe and proven to work. The substances works to enhance sexual function, improve the sexual experience and promote all areas of health in your libido.

With no serious side effects, Herbal V has experience a success rate of up to 84%, and can be used by men of all ages. It has been the number one selling male sexual supplement around the world, and has surpassed the performance of any similar knock-off brand or product.

Herbal V is works to promote sexual stimulation, and will begin taking affect on your body within an hour. It combines with sexual stimulation to provide an erection, and will not put you in an uncomfortable position if there is no sexual arousal.

Introduced in 1998, the product is among the original male sexual supplements, and is not only available online. It can be purchased at thousands of retail outlets nationwide, and has been sold in Herb Depot stores, Vitamin World locations and General Nutrition Centers.

The supplement gives you the opportunity to enjoy guaranteed success with your libido, and utilize a formula that lets you experience the benefits right away. It has been featured in Maxim Magazine and on ABC Boston, and rivals the price of any male sexual supplement on the market. With natural ingredients – including Ginkgo Biloba, leaf extract, Cnidium Seed and tropical fruits – Herbal V will increase your performance, your stamina, your stimulation and your satisfaction – all in one little pill.

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85 Penis Size “Facts”

After all this, you must be more than ready for the penis size “facts”. Note: When it says “men” or “women” then that is what it says, otherwise it would say “all men” or “all women”. So think about this before making a comment. There are exceptions to everything in life… Enjoy!

1. If you are a woman and you don’t prefer bigger than average penises, then you are… an exception.

2. Women prefer bigger penises more than men prefer bigger breasts.

3. The average penis measures 6 to 7 inch long and 5 to 5 ½ inch in circumference (about 1 ¾ inch wide).

4. When you think you have a small penis, you are generally right.

5. Shorter and thinner than average flaccid penises are averagely shorter and thinner when erect than average erect penises. (Does that make any sense?)

6. Penis size is not just a locker room issue.

7. Women care about the size of flaccid penises.

8. Women love touching and looking at big flaccid penises.

9. Women love touching and looking at big erect penises.

10. Women love giving oral sex to big penises, if they are able to of course.

11. Big penises cause more vaginal pleasure for women.

12. What about this: Twenty percent of all women stay with a man for his big penis…

13. forty percent stay with a man for his money…

14. forty percent stay with a man because of who he is…

15. …eighty percent would like their partner to have a bigger penis!

16. …eighty percent of women don’t orgasm from intercourse alone!

17. …eighty percent of men have an average or small penis!

18. If your penis slips out often during intercourse, you probably have a small penis.

19. Women find small penises frustrating.

20. Women find small penises annoying.

21. Women find small penises boring.

22. Women find small penises embarrassing.

23. Women look for bulge when meeting men.

24. Women look up to men with big penises.

25. Women find big penises impressive.

26. Women consider men with big penises more masculine.

27. Men with big penises are more self secure.

28. Women prefer men who are self secure.

29. Most women consider men with a big penis a sex object.

30. Most men don’t mind to be considered a sex object by women.

31. Women pretend they want a sensual and sensitive man no matter his size.

32. Women know they want a macho and masculine man with big penis size.

33. Women want to sleep at least once in their life with a man with a very big penis.

34. Men with bigger penises date more women than men with smaller penises.

35. Men with a big penis have more chance to have sex with two or more women at the same time.

36. Women brag to other women if their partner has a big penis.

37. Women have more patience when it comes to well hung guys.

38. Men with a big penis get dumped less by their girlfriend than men with a small penis.

39. Most women are sexually very active with different partners between the age of 17 and 21.

40. Most women have had many more sexual partners than they are telling you.

41. Consequently, the probability that a man’s new date has seen a bigger penis than his is very high.

42. If a woman doesn’t make a comment about a man’s penis it means she is not impressed, …or worse.

43. Women make favorable comments when they discover their new mate has a big penis.

44. If you haven’t heard any great comments about your penis size when having sex the first time with a woman, you don’t have a big penis.

45. If you have never heard a complaint about your penis being too small, it might be because the complaint was muted while pronounced.

46. Asking a woman if she thinks your penis is big is useless.

47. If a woman tells you your penis is nice, it means usually it is rather small.

48. If a woman tells you your penis is big, it means usually it is plain average.

49. If a woman tells you your penis is so huuuuge, it usually means it is just big.

50. If a woman lowers your pants, utters a shriek, takes off her clothes and hugs your penis, it usually means you are too big.

51. However, if a woman lowers your pants, utters a shriek, puts her clothes back on and leaves, it usually means you are too small.

52. Women don’t tell you that you are average. They will tell you that you are big, the rest is small and very few are humongous.

53. If your girlfriend’s previous lover was above average thick, she will not feel you inside if you are below average thick.

54. If your girlfriend’s previous lover was way above average thick, she will not feel you inside if you are average thick.

55. Most vaginas prefer thick penises.

56. Most penises prefer tight vaginas.

57. If your woman purposely squeezes her vagina very tight during intercourse, she wants to make you feel big.

58. Women have to strain themselves to get off on a thinner than average penis.

59. Men with a short penis have to work harder to give pleasure to a woman.

60. Men with a long penis have to work less hard during intercourse.

61. Men with a long penis have more fun during intercourse.

62. Men with a long penis cause more fun during intercourse.

63. Men with a long and thick penis cause the most fun during intercourse.

64. Women consider a penis between 7 and 8 inch in length and between 6 and 6 1/2 inch girth ideal.

65. Women whose partner is smaller than average, wish sometimes he would wear a big strap-on.

66. A big strap-on causes less pleasure than a real penis of the same size.

67. Women whose partner is larger than average never think of him wearing a strap-on.

68. Men with small penises masturbate more often.

69. Over-masturbating causes your penis to shrink by eventually depleting your sexual energy.

70. Men with small penises are getting masturbated more often than getting laid.

71. Not using your penis by getting laid might cause it to shrink as well.

72. If a woman publicly says that size doesn’t matter, it is often because she is with a small penis guy.

73. Women who believe size is a non-issue tend to be more spiritual than sexual.

74. Women who believe size is a non-issue tend to be more insecure and are looking for long-term relations.

75. Women who believe size is a non-issue care less about sex to begin with.

76. Women who believe size is a non-issue usually want flowers, candies and long walks under the moonlight instead of wild sex.

77. Women who believe size is a non-issue only want to make love.

78. Normal women want to make love on some days and have sex on the other ones.

79. Making love is spiritual…, having sex is physical attraction, size and technique.

80. Men with a big penis can be just as good or bad in technique as smaller endowed men.

81. If a smaller endowed man has great technique, it might be because he doesn’t have much choice.

82. Most women who always prefer receiving oral sex to penetration, do so because of either mental or physical causes.

83. In general, women prefer vaginal penetration above oral stimulation.

84. The main reason some women feel pain from penetration by a large penis is that the guy rushes without waiting for the vagina to be expanded.

85. Other reasons a woman can feel pain from penetration by a large penis is that she is not relaxed enough or that the guy has bad technique.

All right…,

Are You Making These Sex Mistakes?

Making sex a race. When it comes to sex don’t rush. Take time and explore each others erogenous zones. Sex should be about closeness and discovery. It shouldn’t be rushed or goal orientated because that’s not sexy.

Same time and place. Change it up a bit. Take her back to a place where you two had sex whether it be the back seat of the car or in the garage.

Predictable Foreplay. If you want to change things up consider working out together. Working out will help alleviate stress and increase dopamine levels. Not to mention your sweat has a derivative that when smelt will cause her to become aroused.

Predicable first moves. Try something different tie up her hands and have her figure out how to take off your shirt or have her tie up your hands and try to take off her underwear. Not only will you share some laughs it will up the foreplay and change your predictability

Watching TV, then sex. Instead of TV, try reading a book together it erotica or not. Or try taking a bath or walk.

Holding hands. There’s nothing wrong with holding hands but after awhile it can become just a habit try changing up your moves. Hold the small of her back or giving her a kiss a little PDA will show her you’re proud to show her off and deepen your connection.

Revamped Ideas To Up Her Sex Drive

Lit Candles

The Old Notion: Light lots of candles because candles set the mood and are romantic.
The New Theory: By lighting scented candles you may be able to soothe some of her anxiety and make her more receptive to love making. A doctor from Chicago says Green Apple is one of the top scents. However you should avoid Cherry because it tends to inhibit sexual arousal.

Buy Her a Lobster Supper

The Old Notion: Buying lobster showed your exquisite taste and picking up the cheque leaves her very impressed.
The New Notion: Lobsters contain high amounts of phosphorus which is an important mineral in keeping vaginal tissues moist which helps with her comfort and may heighten her desires. Another way to increase desire is to serve up a side of carrots which are high in Beta Carotene which raises levels of progesterone and increases desire.

Slip Her A Sex Pill

The Old Notion: One minute she is downing Spanish-Fly the next she’s in between the sheets.
The New Notion: There is a supplement known as ArginMax which is known to double the increase in sexual drive for many women who are taking it. Tell her about the pill and she may make the decision herself to try it.

Re-create A Sexy Date

The Old Notion: Which makes you look sweet and sensitive.
The New Notion: Take one of your dates and recreate the sights and smells. If there was a particular smell that had her aroused reintroducing it may recreate that arousal.

Basic Things To Remember About Sex

Avoid eating heavy meals before intercourse. Eating greasy or heavy meals can lead to gas or indigestion during lovemaking.

Watch what you drink. Drinking may increase the desire in men but it can also limit their ability this is the same with women. 2 or 3 drinks may leave women loving but can’t limit what they can do physically.

Penile discharge or sores equals no sex. Many STDs don’t have obvious symptoms. For example Chlamydia in males may be almost symptom free yet can cause you major grief the next day.

Before any date whether you have sex or not bathe. No one wants to smelly sweaty armpits or a smelly butt.

Your teeth are important. Make sure that you brush your teeth twice a day and floss. You don’t want to have garlic on your breath or chunks of your salad from lunch in your teeth. This is especially important for those of you who are smokers. No one wants to kiss a dirty ashtray.

Always use condoms when you are having sex with a new partner. No matter how innocent that person may seem you need to be cautious and even regular partners should be regularly tested for STDs.

Don’t worry about penis size. One thing to remember is the penis looks smaller to the owner than the person who is looking at it. Even if your member is on the smaller side a woman will appreciate it if you are attentive.

Don’t rush into intercourse and focus only on the genitalia. Many women and men need to have foreplay. Take the time to massage and explore each others bodies. Find out each others likes and dislikes.

Make sure your girl knows that you think she is sexy. Some woman are very insecure about themselves but hearing how great you think she looks and how much she turns you on will definitely help put her mind at ease.

Everybody will have off days. Don’t get upset at your girl if she is finding it hard to reach orgasm or mad at your boyfriend if he prematurely ejaculates. There may be outside factors like tiredness, stress, inexperience or anxiety.

Sometimes more is less. Don’t stress if you can’t do those tantric positions find positions that are comfortable that provide you with enjoyment.

There are lots of lubricants and toys out there but they shouldn’t be used as a shortcut.

Women are slower. Women take longer to be aroused and take longer to reach orgasm. The key is that the longer sex takes the better it will feel for her. Take the time to kiss, cuddle, caress everywhere not just the genitals.

Though most women can reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation that doesn’t mean they don’t want to have a penetrative orgasm.

Having sex for hours doesn’t make you a hot stud. Instead it makes the vagina numb and sore.

Have manners. Don’t just pull your girls hair and force her head down to your member. Also avoid ramming your penis down her throat. If you think you are going to cum be courteous and warn her that way she has the option of what she wants to do.

Top Female Erogenous Zones

For a man many of the zones are obvious, penis, testicles and anus. Many men of course want to know where they can touch a woman to drive her crazy. Keep in mind that every woman is different what some like others may dislike. Women unlike men have many different erogenous zones. So just where can you touch her?

The feet. Many women enjoy having their feet massaged and their toes sucked or licked that is assuming that they are cleaned properly. The feet are a very sensitive spot for some women and the tickling sensation can be very pleasant.

The Ears. Licking, sucking and kissing a woman’s ears can be arousing for her. You can blow in her ear but we don’t need wind speeds of a tornado. Whisper erotic things to her in her ear and the breeze from your breath will be enough to make her tingle.

Wrists. The wrists may seem like an odd place for an erogenous zone but women like to have their wrists nibbled and nuzzled. Next time you and your woman are engaging in foreplay start by caressing her wrists and watch how turned on she gets.

Nape of the neck. Breathing on her neck will give her goose bumps imagine what would happen if you nibbled gently or sucked on her neck. Guaranteed your woman will really like it if you lift her hair and gently tilt her head softly kissing and nibbling her neck.

Nipples. This probably isn’t a surprise to anyone that the breasts are erogenous zones. Gently fondling sucking or nibble will surely get her hot.

The buttocks. A lot of women actually enjoy if you gently spank or squeeze their buttocks but there are the odd few that actually enjoy having their butts licked and penetrated with a finger or your penis.

Vagina/Clitoris. Another no brainer. You can stimulate the clitoris by rubbing and sucking. Most times you can tell when she’s enjoying it because she will moan or even squirm.

The vagina has the G-spot which can be difficult to find but many women are grateful when you do. When this area is stimulated it produces an intense pleasure and an usual sensation.

The backs of the knees. There are many nerve endings in the backs of the knees so a woman can find it extremely pleasurable when you nibble or lick the backs of the knees. However be careful, the backs of the knees can get irritated if you are being to rough.

The Lips. If you know how to kiss, lick, suck and bite then you will fill her with passion and there’s a good chance you will end up doing more then just kissing.

The inner thighs. The inner thighs are very sensitive to touching, stroking, and licking so when you fondle them you will make her wild.