Ever been on a date, felt like a good time but then she never replied to your calls? Don’t despair, it happens to all of us. It’s usually because you’re doing some of the following date wrecking activities. Next time you go out, make sure you stay clear of them and things should work in your favor.
Using your phone
When a real man is interested in a woman, he gives her, his full undivided attention. That makes her feel special. It also shows her that you are genuinely interested in her existence. This is the sort of thing that racks up some big points on her scoreboard.
Staying on your phone all night shows her just how little you care about her. On top of that, it’s rude in any sort of social convention.
Starting at other chicks
You’re on a date so try to focus! This sort of behavior tells a girl that you’re not interested in her or that you don’t find her attractive, since you’re looking at the other women.
This sort of behavior is what makes a girl feel bad. It’s also the sort of behavior that get’s your number blocked.
Alcohol loosens people up, they open up to each other – That’s a good thing.
When you have too much, you start talking stupid stuff, you wobble your hands around, spilling her drink etc… Apart from how sad that is, it makes you look insecure or even worse you come off as an alcoholic.
Next time you go out, make sure you keep an eye out on your alcohol intake. If you’re one of those people who don’t know when to stop, don’t drink at all!
Judging her every word
She’s out with you because she wants to have a good time. That should be your primary goal. I’m not telling you to agree with everything she says, because that makes you look even worse but, when she tells you she likes Twilight… just leave it there.
Stories about your ex
Ok, so your ex was a total bitch. She cheated on you, left you for your best friend etc. Now let me ask you a question, do you think the girl you just convinced to go out with you cares about this? I’ll answer that for you – NO.
Actually, women find this very disturbing; even if you might think, or say otherwise, this clearly shows them that you’re NOT over your ex. With so many guys around, no girl needs a guy with ex girlfriend issues.
Talking about how amazing you are
There’s nothing worse than going out with a guy and hearing, that same guy, talking on and on about his achievements, great life, how good he looks, how much he benches etc.
You need to remember that yes, she does want to know you but, she wants you to know her too. Women love a good listener so next time you’re out, try to play that role and see how it works for you.
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